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July 23, 2009

The Secret Behind Old Men




My dad is getting old!

sayer de3la mayta7acha!

and everything is a big deal

o kela yt7al6am

Which is so NOT like my dad.

Growing up i never even heard my dad so much as raise his voice.
He always taught us to look at the bright side.

Well apparently my dad has been wearing his shades 24/7 cz nothing seems bright to him!

dalooooooooooooooo3

madre shasawe feeh

and dont even get me started on my mom!
hathi ele 9ij to7fa!

So why do old men get so grumpy !
Shouldnt they be older, wiser, CALMER?!!
posted by eshda3wa at 12:00 AM

37 Comments:

lool! i think when that happens they need to go on vacation oo feel young again!

That seems to work on my dad!

July 23, 2009 at 12:39 AM  

I don't really get men!

or woman! I don't get anyone! :-p
bs madri, maybe because he isn't able to do certain things that he used to be able to do before... as they say, el kober shain...

maybe you should talk to him about it... or wait till you experience it yourself! ;-p

July 23, 2009 at 12:49 AM  

ana agool ma etshooofen shar !!! fe a7ad egool chethii 3an obooh?? wenty lama kenty yaheeel do u know eshkenty etsaweeeen?? and if ur dad said the same thing about his new family 25 years ago did he back out on u?? did he give up on u guys??? ana agool think bs what ur children will do to u cuz of what u just said !

July 23, 2009 at 1:31 AM  

Oh men's brain goes backwards, don't you know that! :/

July 23, 2009 at 1:31 AM  

i think ohma yekboron bel 3umer bs el mentality tesghar! ..fe marasheftay yagel calm and wise??

July 23, 2009 at 1:43 AM  

I fully understand your dilemma, nafs el 7ala 3endena! kela mo 3ajba oo kela m3a9eb(9j ena ohwa mn zman chethy bas it keeps getting worse) a7es el soulution ena e5thy 3ala gad 3agla

July 23, 2009 at 3:03 AM  

fact of the matter is your dad might be right .... snap something in two and all you'll find is poo .... the world is turning into shit around us .... sadly ....

July 23, 2009 at 3:52 AM  

well you are right my dad is turning 60 this upcoming Sept. Though he is a Doctor he should be calm and so on he was always been angry on every little thing. Which i hate but mom is cool she gets pissed on the right stuff which i accept openly :P and they get grumpy I guess cas they feel that they didnt do a lot yet and they want to do it thats what I think.

July 23, 2009 at 4:03 AM  

My dear blogger this is called "achievement vs. despair" and I remember studying it in psychology. In short, it means that men at that age when they realize they don't have as much life ahead of them (this is different from one man to the other in terms of age of realization) they start reviewing their lives to see if they have achieved all they wanted to do with their lives or not. It could be simple things they had in the back of their heads (learning a musical instrument, learning another language, being rich...etc). If they feel they achieved it they are very peaceful older gentlemen, and if they feel they haven't achieved them, and don't have the time to do it, they turn into grumpy men. I am sure you could read more useful articles on the web about it, but that's the short story. Good Luck with dad, and treat him right.

July 23, 2009 at 4:09 AM  

Shiyab likwait, as they get older they start acting like babies.

3indina w 3indich khair.

July 23, 2009 at 4:29 AM  

Tell me about it ... my dad just retired .. ga3ed bel bait 24/7 .. w as u said yet7al6am :S .. my mom started the sensitivity thing about every single word that comes out of our mouth .. mm ham since she retired :S

July 23, 2009 at 1:43 PM  

loool madre ana ubooy sayer wayed '3ashmirchy.. tawa mkamil 46 lol wayed y7ib ithi7ik .. ya amreeka ga6ha si7ba wiya ilshabab ;p

July 23, 2009 at 3:06 PM  

haha.. but maybe the secret for losing it is the feeling for losing it!

alah ekhaleehom lich, o e3eena when we get there!

July 23, 2009 at 3:35 PM  

its just a transitional phase they're going through -- and it is your turn to pay them back by exercising utmost patience with them .kabesh?????

July 23, 2009 at 4:10 PM  

mn awal ma 6l3taw ibhal denyaa w ohwaa ydl3 fekum w ydalelkum w ya dhainaa la tnktain 3ad al7een kobaar yabekum tdal3onaaa yabii klmtaa 2lii tamshii w raya ohwaa il97 ;D

ana agool shofelaa mara ;Pp

July 23, 2009 at 5:10 PM  

It's not aging but I think you're dad's mind is thinking heavily!

Give him some time and he will be OK

July 23, 2009 at 5:12 PM  

loool

l2n they dont have anything to do .. fa ma3ndhm '3air el t7l6m

July 23, 2009 at 5:17 PM  

lana 3eyalah kebraw o lazem
yetdala3oon 3alakum nafs ma kento tetdala3oon 3aliahum ur youm knto
e9'3ar :P

July 23, 2009 at 8:36 PM  

aham shay ennech tegolen 3an omech "hathe"

July 23, 2009 at 10:59 PM  

ok let me answer.

I think it's the malyoon pills they're taking daily, and the actual physiological changes going on in their brains, the ageing process is big on the nervous system hufft

7abibi baba takes 5 pills per day; FIVE wala 3anhom, our physicians are killers mashala!

July 23, 2009 at 11:03 PM  

oooh mines the opposite... hes so cool.. Allah ye7fa'6hum enshallah ;)

July 23, 2009 at 11:43 PM  

3adee 3adee 3adee ambeeeh my dad 9ayer chtheee !! yes i know he is old now but shloon chthee he changes alot wooow alaah y3eena i don`t know what i am going to be lama a9eer 3yooz

July 24, 2009 at 2:23 AM  

Haha my dad the same! Sometime he keep on grumbling and grumbling and grumbling over and over again.

July 24, 2009 at 9:58 AM  

ur dad mitqa3id?
la7atht that happens to them laman yitqa3idoun

July 24, 2009 at 3:51 PM  

min ilmalal ilwa7id y9er grumpy, as simple as that :P

July 25, 2009 at 9:48 AM  

allaah e3enech, bs golelaa "yuba 7asafa 3alaik kobartt" oo emshay chood e7es :P

July 25, 2009 at 11:44 AM  

you will know when u get older. :P

July 25, 2009 at 1:14 PM  

3endena o 3endech 5air
ekbaraw o gamaw e5orona allah yhadahm :p

July 26, 2009 at 12:18 AM  

Do u really wanna know ??????

it has do with somethings no longer working as well as they used to ...OPPS i said it :P

July 26, 2009 at 4:36 AM  

ohh ask me about it !
i have 2 lol they sometimes yelling @ each other ,,allah y7f'6hom =D

July 26, 2009 at 7:38 AM  

Its just one of those things! He has been working a lot and raising a family so you can't blame him too much for complaining after raising all the kids and working!

July 26, 2009 at 2:47 PM  

mine too :'-(

but I can blame them, getting old sucks

wise old ppl are REALLY rare those days

coz in the past being old is such a privilige!
everybody listens to u, obey u, care abt ur opinion, consult u in everything

Now adays every body is busy and the life is tough n' harsh

if ur not young n healthy , ur totally forgetable

only my openion

but u know what? they r getting grumpy but yer'6oon ebser3a fedaithom :P

July 27, 2009 at 5:55 AM  

Maybe he just needs a break...Or perhaps something is bothering him.

Have a nice chat with him...find out.

Then maybe you can help fix things and everybody's happy.

July 27, 2009 at 12:14 PM  

11st
i told him we should go on vaca.. ma yabe!

moos
he just needs a lil lovin

e7mod
cz i said oboy dalo3
dude
take ur preaching elsewhere
ill worry about my own kids thank u very much
Lighten up

shosho
now i do!

anony
lol true!

m7ammd
elmoshkila ina y3a9b then says do whatever u want!
it gets confusing
like i said before
he just needs a lil lovin!

KTDP
and yelling at me will fix things?

G
its not so much that he gets angry as much as DALOOO3

anon
i always do :)
thanks.. ill def. read more about it

Ruby woo
allah y3eeennn

CC</B
elmoshkila my daddy isnt retired!

July 28, 2009 at 1:22 PM  

e7mod: LOOOL a3sabik yal 7abeeb!

shalalala: ya5e omha wkaifha! la 3almena shlon ntkalam??! sa5efa il comment. 7asastini sabat'ha wana madre.

eshda3wa: raja2an il comments ilsa5efa don't publish them

July 28, 2009 at 1:23 PM  

Mar8
my dad is older than ur dad
its coming ... wait for it :P
oo allah ykhaleeh lich inshalah !

simper
ameen
thanks!

f7ee7ly
kabeshain... wala im a very good daughter :)

acb
were dall3ing him
the utmost dala3

HS
i hope so

miss choco
bs he works so much!

candy
ystahlon

shalala
omi oo kaifi
i didnt count babas pills
maybe i should

maitha
ameeeeen

new bride
eee makes me think, lana im like my dad in soo many ways.. so i wonder if ill turn chithy when im older

C
guess the only thing we can do is take it with a smile!

JE
no , and i dont know how itll be when he does ytqa3ad!

Zon
hes not metmalil or lonely

July 28, 2009 at 1:33 PM  

mrs
akhaf ya7thefni eb shay

hamza
:s

Gee
LOL
allah yhade eljamee3

Dazed
if u mean what i think you mean
NASTY

monmon
it is kind of funny.
except when hes yelling at me then i isnt

marzouq
yeah true ..
cant complain there

lulwa
ur totally right!
and yeah he does yertha ebser3a
so cute!

F
tried that
didnt work..
maybe ill try again

Silver
inshalah 3amity

July 28, 2009 at 1:39 PM  

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