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January 29, 2008

Life Defining Moments





Changing schools 1997
I was scared and miserable, turned out to be the best move I ever made


My uncle passing away 2000

Cancer at 32. Changed everything about everyone, the great depression, my aunts wore black for 3 years after his death, it definitely changed my outlook on life.

Graduating High school 2003

Breaking away from the security and familiarity of everything and everyone I had grown up with, i felt limitless!

My parents divorce 2006

Its not so much the divorce, but dealing with the aftermath.



There are a lot of significant moments in my life. moving away from home, dealing with certain situations, meeting certain people, but these four moments had more impact on me and who i am today than any others.


What are the moments that defined your life?

posted by eshda3wa at 12:00 AM

41 Comments:

moments dont define me ... i define them !


<- hahah i sound smart and cool;p

January 28, 2008 at 11:47 PM  

um mit3ib
lol
ya intay!

January 28, 2008 at 11:57 PM  

My Approach to life:

Most play the cards they are dealt. I stack the deck!!

alah ewafgich inshalla!

January 29, 2008 at 12:25 AM  

That's a good question.

I think the most important moment when my dad enforced me to study in England using his special power when I wanted to study in Kuwait. Now I'm glad he did.

January 29, 2008 at 12:48 AM  

1.Watching one of my parent Trying to 'hang' by the rope on my 10th b'day .
2.Getting married against all odds
3.Birth of my son .

January 29, 2008 at 1:04 AM  

My divorce!

January 29, 2008 at 1:19 AM  

i relate to the first point , it was back at 99 , highschool , i almost had a fight with my mom i didnt want to cont in the new school , but again , it turned to be one of the best things i did , or just happened ..


a dear cousin passing away , ( 2003 ) , allah yr7oma


a break up ( 20.. )

another break up ( 20.. )


i guess its about wat doesnt kill ya , makes u stronger , soo being strong enough now adays is wat i am , wat defines me

January 29, 2008 at 1:37 AM  

hmmm

1996
1998
1999
2002
2004
2006
2007

Wow never think i will count it :D

January 29, 2008 at 2:22 AM  

I have to say that you always inspire me, and especially after this post :)

I love how with all what goes on in your life, you still managed to DO WELL in your education and also carry good traits; great personality and charisma :)

allah y7maich min kel shar inshallah


as for me...the BIGGEST life defining moment in my life is


Moving to Canada in 1994
(turned out to be the best decision my family has ever made!!)

January 29, 2008 at 4:33 AM  

CHANGING SCHOOLS 1997; meeting eshda3wa who is the love of my life.

*trying to be a7san min ba3th innaas - khaysa*

MA7IBKUM KILIKUM!!!

January 29, 2008 at 5:14 AM  

Yet to discover. I do not need a moment to define my life as i can pretty much think of lots of critical moments that somehow had an impact on my life but failed miserably to define it.

I like the picture though :)

January 29, 2008 at 5:30 AM  

Its a two way street.. but memories define us as we define ourselves coming out of them.. they make us stronger.. then make us who we are..
proud of you girlie for the strength that you brought out of these events good and bad...

January 29, 2008 at 5:50 AM  

girl seem you went through few to get where you are today! :)

moments?? heh! i don't remember moments really! i remember life throwing me around and me getting up and start walking again... but no moments! :P

January 29, 2008 at 8:11 AM  

sorry to hear about ur loss and the divorce *hugs*

My defining moments:

First exposure to human beings (seriously): January 2002

First published story: sometime in 2003 >> more exposure to human beings and fame

deviantART: changed life forever

Graduation: June 2006 >> welcome to the new world

First salary: September 2006 >> independence

January 29, 2008 at 9:03 AM  

I am sorry about your parents divorce. *hugs*

January 29, 2008 at 9:50 AM  

marzouq
thats a good approach when having to make your own decisions, but sometimes there r things out of your hands!
allah ywafg eljamee3

salah
leaving home definitely changes you and makes you stronger!

grey
1- im sorry u had to go thru that
2-love conquers all!
3-im sure ur gna be an amazing dad!

hasan.b
wOw! ok now thats a story i gotta hear

eva
allah yr7am your cousin
and ur rite, it definitely makes u stronger!

January 29, 2008 at 9:54 AM  

I could say that my life is 4 phases..
Primary School life 1990-1997
High School Life 1997-2001
University Life 2001-2004
Canada Life 2005-2006

and then this phase.

January 29, 2008 at 10:06 AM  

qabbani
and i guess the time line will continue!

Ghasheema
om 7amooood!!
tawa ma nawar el blog!
thank u 7ayate your just too sweet.

inshallah one day your kids will look back and say " moving back to kuwait, the best decision my parents ever made"

i hope all is going well !

ninnar
7ayate 7ayate intay!
the ONLY reason that changing schools is up there its because its where i met u!
i dont have to clarify that! u already know u r the bestest thing in my life!!

Tiger
the moments of impact never changed you in anyway?
glad u like the pic

kamilia
thank u sweet heart!

noracassandra
babe ur up and ur walking!
ur a much stronger woman than i! :**

kj
what do u mean first exposure?!!
and man i cant wait to feel the sweet taste of independence!
thank u!

perfecty
its ok sweet heart!
thank u!

January 29, 2008 at 10:11 AM  

im so sorry for ur loss, may God bless his soul and bless u and urs :hug: and sorry to hear bout the divorce as well.. im sure stuff like this made u stronger even if dealing with em at the moment was difficult..

my moments r numerous to be honest my life is similar to a soap opera! eww! lol

all the best girl :)

January 29, 2008 at 10:40 AM  

hamza
yeah we all go thru different phases that shape and mold us, but tell me what specifically impacted u!

proud
thank u sweet heart :)
soap huh?
well write it down babe
u can make big money!

January 29, 2008 at 2:10 PM  

If I write a post about that, I'll link you;)

January 29, 2008 at 2:34 PM  

mm for me
1-when ever i changed home , we changed it for 3 or 4 times .
2-2000 whe my grand pa died
3-2001 mu unce passed away
4- 2003 in iran my nervous break down
5- 2007 m.s bieng in my life and changeing everything

etha n6rty 3ly few years b3d btlgene something diffrent from what i am this year ;p

for me even the silliest dumest thing in my life change me .

January 29, 2008 at 2:39 PM  

ummm .. lemme make it short ..

2000 when my sis had her first baby ..

2001 when i graduated from highschool and realized that i aint no kid no more ..

2003 when everything around me in the uni started to slap me real hard ..

2006 when i got shocked knowing about work and that it was nothing like what i had in mind ..

2007 when i made up my mind to move on and never stay in that job more than this year .. ooo inshala next year i'll tell you guys that 2008 I DID MOVED ON ! :D

January 29, 2008 at 3:07 PM  

actually time passes by itself
and my years are countless thats why i dont wear watches or look for the time

am just trying to enjoy it as much as i can and be aware from the misearable events

January 29, 2008 at 3:08 PM  

amethyst
ill be waiting for tht post!

free_moi
allah yr7am ur grandpa n uncle!
why did u have a nervous breakdown?!!


navy_girl
ill be waiting for the move girl!
u can do it!

3ateej el9oof
im the exact opposite of u, i keep tabs and have to know the exact time all the time!
but i choose not to be aware of the bad stuff!

January 29, 2008 at 4:38 PM  

who the hell is "tiger" i dont remember having cubs!???

January 29, 2008 at 5:56 PM  

Well I need to have a blog first!

January 29, 2008 at 6:00 PM  

im trying to come up with a list but i really cant, but there was one moment but i only ever told 2 ppl about it and even that was 2 ppl too many

January 29, 2008 at 8:55 PM  

You're uncle passing away, that sounded tough...Allah yr7umah

Like a lot of people said if it doesn't kill you, it definately makes you stronger...

January 29, 2008 at 10:33 PM  

you and I are more alike than you think girl

January 29, 2008 at 10:43 PM  

mama tiger
thats wat u get for not being sober!

hasan.b
then wat a u waiting for!
thats a good opening post!

do0da
u should tell us
ull feel free :)

f.
i dont know if it made me stronger, but it definitely changed me

g and l
how so?

January 29, 2008 at 10:59 PM  

hmm let's see:

2000: going to KU
2001: going abroad
2003: changing schools
2005: moving back
2007: quitting my job

I think severe changes in my surroundings have been the defining moments in my life. I'm glad that, for better or for worse, my defining moments have all been choices I've made myself.

January 29, 2008 at 11:02 PM  

been through all 4 of them ;s bs el changing schools 9arat m3ay akthar mn marah ;/

January 30, 2008 at 12:23 AM  

i know i know :P 7ata ana ma3araft 3omre :P

January 30, 2008 at 12:52 AM  

2003
2004
2007
2008

January 30, 2008 at 10:46 AM  

http://anamethystworld.blogspot.com/2008/01/laish-mu-kashkha.html

;)

January 30, 2008 at 3:57 PM  

u always are so provocative and inspiring... when i think of my life defining moments.. other than 1990 (very very defining moment in my life because of the invasion, and the loss of my father), the other year that stands out making all other life defining moments minimal is 2000... notice i didnt even put my marriage year, not that its not a big big thing.. just 2000 was Titanic in its turbulance..

January 31, 2008 at 12:18 PM  

I can finally post a comment :D I was reading you sis but couldn’t comment because of java problems :S

I'm sorry about your parents and about your uncles death may he rest in peace.

I had many life defining moments

1998 I had a culture shock after living 8 years in the UK and that we are not going to live there again.

1999 my uncle dying from cancer.

2003 graduating high school.

2007 graduating and feeling that I don’t have anything to do. After that having a job and not loving it. My first salary.

I bet there are more and that I can't remember them at this moment.

January 31, 2008 at 2:20 PM  

great post! emwaffiga inshallah

January 31, 2008 at 3:27 PM  

Interesting!!

I loved how you made it..

and have nice vacation!!

February 3, 2008 at 1:15 PM  

ooooh too many, these things have to happen to keep viewers hooked...characters have to evolve, i probably changed most after my dad's death, Allah yr7ima, your uncle and kil el muslimeen

February 3, 2008 at 1:33 PM  

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