eshda3wa

February 27, 2008

Overly Emotional




I hate people that are overly emotional. If something bad happens GET OVER IT.
Don't
go complaining to everyone you see.
Don't go broadcasting your heartbreak looking for sympathy.
Just Shut up and move on!

I just don't get people who use really sad situations for the sympathy of a specific person. To lure them into getting closer, like a death or a health issue.

Bohooo hooo I broke my arm when I was six, hold me, hug me, comfort me, get closer. LOVE ME, LOVE me, please just LOVE ME!!

What?!! you DON'T want to love me? you mean you were only trying to be nice? All you wanted was to comfort me?
Are you trying to tell me that I mean nothing to you!
But I poured my heart and soul to you, I gave you everything. I let you get so close to me!!

Stupid idiotic people! And if that wasn't enough what do you go do after that?
You broadcast your stupidity to the whole world. You tell them you fell victim. Don't you just love using the word victim?
Your heart is broken your soul is heavy, your tears are dry. You need loving.
A vicious cycle you take yourself through all the time.


And desperate women, don't throw yourself at a guy then get all psycho when he doesn't marry you after you beg him 700 times!
Did it really surprise you ? DID IT?!!

You know if your that kind of person.
People are beginning to catch on sweetheart. Find a new line.
Don't turn everything into a drama movie, there ain't no Oscar in it for you!

posted by eshda3wa at 12:35 AM

43 Comments:

I feel that I have read this post here before! I see alot of depressed people were I work, and yes eqethon but sometimes you have to stick with them. Some girls can become tricked by bastard men, some are just plain stupid, lelasaf.

On another etha7ek note; when I was young(very young and not anymore!!) I was de3la(el e3teraf bel7aq fathela) I used to go to everyone that comes to our house, cousins, family members etc, and ask them: "7ebene wela ma 7ebene"?? and if they say yes, i might ask them a few mins later or another day, and if they say NO(how dare them!) I would reply by saying; laish ma 7ebene!!(in complete shock b3d!) In conclusion, this story indicates that I used to have il mowasafat ili you mentioned in your post, which would make people hate me!!

February 27, 2008 at 1:17 AM  

Hasan
i think iv complained about this issue before
bas shasawe maykhaloon elwa7ed yaskit
u said u were YOUNG
moo wa7da ebghala kober madre shagool
i wish i could just slap ppl!

February 27, 2008 at 1:24 AM  

well said

February 27, 2008 at 1:41 AM  

tat
merci

February 27, 2008 at 1:52 AM  

had a bad day?

February 27, 2008 at 2:01 AM  

whoa.. who pissed u off?;p

February 27, 2008 at 4:19 AM  

I like keeping my troubles to myself, If it is something serious I'd tell my mother. Otherwise, I will shut up :p

February 27, 2008 at 6:53 AM  

It's energy draining to deal with people like that because it's never ending. Its not an excuse to blame it on parents, but often this is a result of how they were brought up.

February 27, 2008 at 7:02 AM  

I think i need to be overly emotional and complain of my relatives who do nothing but curse their luck....even though they are well off financially and socially ba3d

bas sij nas ma t7med rabha

I HATE ppl who forget to count their blessings be4 going on "ana almtheelemah ana" mode

February 27, 2008 at 7:24 AM  

You need to get new colleagues!!! hehehe.

Everyone now thinks that all their problems go back to childhood so a broken arm at the age of three can become a social problem 30 years later

February 27, 2008 at 8:29 AM  

I'm a very emotional person, I cry over everything but I don't go ranting out to anyone. I keep my feelings hidden to myself.

I just Hate Attention Seekers

February 27, 2008 at 9:28 AM  

I have to say that I am finding this funny! I do understad what you mean, but something got you worked up for sure!

I just let them be and move on!

February 27, 2008 at 9:44 AM  

LOL I can't agree more with you! You said it right hehehe

February 27, 2008 at 10:15 AM  

yeah i know wat u mean!i dnt know how to deal with those people, i usually just freeze up and get inside my own head and have a party

February 27, 2008 at 11:02 AM  

That just sends me to anger land!!!!
Those ppl are so empty!!! And they feed on attention, they are super selfish having them around is HELL, and even if you tried to sympathy and help that would be the HUGEST mistake ever!!! The only thing that could make them “yet I’ve never witnessed a recovery case” snap out of this is to be left alone!!!!! “I had my share of them alright!!”

February 27, 2008 at 11:32 AM  

your post triggered a memory from the past. I broke my arm once, I was probably 8 yrs, it was so painful but I got over it as soon as my cast was removed. I remember I liked the attention I was getting ...

And I agree with KJ. Others might suffer from mental trauma forever, it just depends on the situation and how parents dealt with that situation. If parents show their kids they're over protective about every little thing, such as a little fall then they may grow up to exaggerate situations too.

February 27, 2008 at 12:01 PM  

Some people are depressed and keep it for a while! Then the result is what you said exactly.
Glad I'm over that period!

February 27, 2008 at 1:19 PM  

But sorrow and sadness is totally human ... sure its disgusting like many human needs and habits but it has to be witnessed in one way or another... some people just don’t know how to deal with it (no matter how small the issue is)... so they broadcast... or some really do need the help .We vary from personalities and mentalities some are good with things others are simply not no matter how much they try. It’s all balanced....drifting again...

My point is maybe we should accept it, because these things won’t change no matter how much people speak.

February 27, 2008 at 2:06 PM  

Wow that was a bit harsh ! It felt like u were talkin to me =/

February 27, 2008 at 2:14 PM  

LOL @ the bohooo part xD
I would`ve said the same thing!

February 27, 2008 at 2:25 PM  

I ALWAYS AVOID THOSE PEOPLE ONCE I SENSE ENA THEY ARE LIKE THAT;\

About the women who throw themselves at mens' feet. I posted about that. Wai3;\

February 27, 2008 at 3:48 PM  

someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed :P
wedi agool ignore bas i know its hard :P slap them?

February 27, 2008 at 5:19 PM  

wallah kan 3ndi rfeeja chethi, t5ayelay kel youm !!! KEL YOUM !!!!! e5tii mree'6a ,, o5ooy mree'6 ,, e5tii mskeena ,, ra7 at2a5ar sena 3shan 3elaj !! ok ADRIIII !! I WAS THERE ,, re7t 7ag e5tech el mstashfa ,, twasa6tlaha, oo ana elli msawyatlekom el visa 3shan tsafroon 3elaaj ;@ a7s y7eboon el shfa8a ;s

February 27, 2008 at 7:26 PM  

damn! sista girl is mad..! Wonder what inspired this post? hmmm..

February 27, 2008 at 8:15 PM  

LOL...

February 27, 2008 at 11:35 PM  

uffffffffffff 7addda!! makoooo este3aaaab! t7en t7en t7en!!! its all about her misfortunate life!! aaargh :@~!

February 28, 2008 at 12:34 AM  

In the past I was living my best days.. no one was in, so nothing gets out!
but when the gate has opened.. i can't keep my problems inside me!!
it drives me crazy :P
It makes me feel good.. when i talk about my problems to other ppl!

February 28, 2008 at 12:48 AM  

looooooooooooooool :P

February 28, 2008 at 1:01 AM  

Amen!
God if only more girls thought that way, it would be much more fun an less "stressful" having to put up with pity parties

February 28, 2008 at 1:04 AM  

I think people who do that are clearly looking for attention, if u dont give them what they want, they will shutup and look for other people to draaaag down with whining and whimpering. nothing wrong with Discussing things with friends, but the bitching and moaning for hours . . Hell No.
Very well said, i shall write ur msg on the forhead of every poor excuse for a woman I know.

February 28, 2008 at 3:19 PM  

I call them attention Ho's
totally drama queens mothers!! no life what so ever, no self respect by any level, gosh there taking space and air for nothing!!

February 28, 2008 at 9:03 PM  

I am with ya!!!!

I hate clingy people and I hate whiners.....they need to move on, grow up and get some sort of life rather than leaching on to someone else all the time for emotional support.

In this day and age- its better to keep your business to yourself and only talk to people u can trust.

And girls----begging a guy so many times to marry you is just plain desperation! Dont lower yourselves...

February 29, 2008 at 2:13 AM  

ahanneeeky 3ala this post!!! :)

February 29, 2008 at 2:25 AM  

*two thumbs up*

February 29, 2008 at 2:25 AM  

Hmm. It seems this issue is one that has gotten on your nerves and made you burst out. I can totally relate. I can understand your feelings exactly about those who are overly dramatic, having been there myself. After having been in these situations more than a few times, I just don't let it get to me anymore. I myself am a pretty quiet, suffer alone in the dark in my own way kind of girl. I only tell anyone about something painful if there is a damn very good reason for it.

Well, I can tell you this from my own experience, having had a run-in myself with a very, very bad situation, one that I thought happened to everyone else and one that it was impossible would ever happen to me. One in which I saw many others get hurt very badly alongside me as well. Eshda3wa, It depends on the person who is saying it and your knowledge of the facts behind the situation. Is the person a drama queen by nature and someone who cried wolf or made situations previously? What is their history? Who are they? Are they trying to recover from something? Has something very bad indeed happened to make this person this way, driven them to be in such a state, and is it a temporary thing because they are going through trauma and suffering as we all will go through in our lives, and as we all must expect will definitely happen to us in the future because that is how life is?

Compassion and empathy are wonderful things and cannot ever be replaced by anything else with respect to their human value.

There have been times in my life when I was younger, when I have made little judgments against people not understanding the full extent of the story or what was wrong. And strangely enough, life turned around (ildunya dawara) and the situation then happened to me. My eyes were harshly opened and I had to take a hard look at myself. I got to see things through the eyes of those I made these harsh judgments about when their situation happened to me, and I did this when I did not understand or knew what the story was and the facts were.

"Judge not lest ye be judged"

I had to learn this lesson, sometimes the hard way in my life.

About the desperate for marriage woman thing: it's sad how this society makes women feel that their only true worth is if a guy marries them, when for many many marriages in Kuwait, the nightmare begins only AFTER the guy marries the girl and then her life is ruined and he goes on to another and then another girl after her. I know one thing very well about these stories now. And that is never, ever listen or hear only one side of the story.

Hope you feel better Eshda3wa, don't let anyone get to you like that it isn't worth it :*

P.S. I loved your last post on National/Independence Day :) It was so warm and so very charming, and clearly came from your heart. It makes me happy to find those who love Kuwait as I do and feel as strongly about it too :)

February 29, 2008 at 3:09 PM  

no one love real drama
but people enjoy drama in what they read or watch
imagine a movie without a little drama.. people won't be that intrested to watch
the same for stories
but in real life no one like people who keep whining , complaning all the time. specially me :)

February 29, 2008 at 3:56 PM  

Oh well, you have people who are true Drama Queens and you have others who are completely emotionless. At the end of the day, you just have to live what you have got and move on.

Regardless, I think the desperation of love and begin loved and accepted is a basic human instinct...but some people take it to a whole new level...and that level is when they become annoying and when your waist goes to your head from their babbling.

February 29, 2008 at 4:35 PM  

I have a blog at last:s

March 1, 2008 at 1:27 AM  

sometimes people need to let things off their chest .. yet you dont have to do that more than once lol ... i know this girl she is a drama-queen always act like this whole world is all about her !!!! wont ever stop dreaming and talking about everyone .. she has her way of saying that everything is somehow about her :D

March 1, 2008 at 2:45 AM  

Bravo! Way to tell it like it is! ... Finally, somebody that understands that the world does not revolve around people that think they're helpless and broken down and demand sympathy.

People have enough emotional baggage as it is. I dont need to fix other peoples problems just to make them feel better.

Its nice that somebody is trying to shed a little more light on the difference between sympathy and empathy.

People should understand that before they come running to other people they should evaluate the relevance of their problems to the problems of the people they approach. If I have enough problems on my mind, I dont want to spend my precious time thinking out solutions to your problems.

Again, great blog! I enjoyed your entry tremendously.

March 2, 2008 at 6:54 AM  

yes, GET OVER IT! thats just life... either deal with it, or get out :p

March 3, 2008 at 11:45 AM  

hehe u thakartini with my sis
we always fight....u know sister fights

o when we do she brings sowalif mn thee 8abel 3ala 8oltich :P
entay
entay
kella menich
7ata madri sheno
o mn 8abel sawaitay
o cries cries cries
the best part is when she screams in the end cuz I begin to laugh :P
I don't blame her sometimes cuz I confess I am a controller ...but even thou I try to reduce my habit she still does what she always does...mako fayda...

Young sisters !!! AH!!


and the circle rolls

March 8, 2008 at 6:52 PM  

I stumbled on this post again by coincidence whilst Googling for something else and reread it. I realized I commented on it the first time.

Forgive me for my frankness in saying this Eshda3wa, I find it to be just as strange and misguided a post as it was when I first I read it. It actually made me sad to read it again and I wanted to tell you so.

I have a feeling you must be a person who is more understanding of the hidden complications and sad traumas life holds for many people, as well as the fact that very often, we do not really understand what the real truth of a situation is, and that not everything that lies on the surface (or what we are told of a situation offhand) is in fact, the real truth. That it is best not to jump to conclusions until the truth of things reveal themselves, as they often do. I am sure you too have had unexpected pain and sadness in your life, and that has made you have more empathy for others.

I know I do not know you but I have a feeling this is true and that you do understand this far more than the impression of what you have written here in this negative post gives.

No offense or injury intended to you in any way, I apologize if I have inadvertently conveyed that. I am the big sister of a young woman your age exactly (who, coincidentally, is also studying/finishing dentistry in the UK) and that is the place in myself from which I speak.

September 22, 2008 at 9:40 PM  

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