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February 20, 2009

Spoilt Brats




Why are the youngest children in the family spoiled brats?

their always the rudest
always get away with everything

they do things their older siblings were never allowed to do at their age!

The bigger the gap between the youngest and the sibling right before, the ruder they are!

WTH

do parents just get too tired of parenting!
posted by eshda3wa at 12:00 AM

31 Comments:

I think ya they do :P but another reason might be, the environment around them.

Well its not always they youngest luckily I have 3 good siblings. One younger than me by 2 years and the other 2 are 8 years and 9 years younger than me :P

They dont always listen but they are ok ^^

February 20, 2009 at 12:07 AM  

because the youngest is the spoiled one, parents adore the youngest more than oldest, all their affection will go to the youngest.

I love foton (6y/o), and adore Lujin(4y/o), but my heart is for Jenan (4 months old), with her teethless smile, i just want to smother her, and snuggle her and just die for her ^_^

isn't the youngest the cutest? :P

February 20, 2009 at 12:14 AM  

I think as long as the parents get older. The spoil their youngest kids will be.

February 20, 2009 at 12:20 AM  

That's the advancement in technology I guess!! It ruins the parents minds!

February 20, 2009 at 12:25 AM  

ha ha ha .. that's a very reasonable reason .. parents got bored of parenting !! never thought of it that way .. but you're 100 % true ..

February 20, 2009 at 12:40 AM  

i loved the thougtht of ur post,
actually el 7een el ahl ye36oon el kids wutever they want,for example my sis (9 rs) ya3nee ma3goola 7ad fee 3omerha she got a laptop with internet,mobile phone,phone el bait el 3ady,guitar,game boy,PS3 +
kel hath o lain sa alnahum youm ne goolohum el kids chee baye5tarboon,el 3ether el wa7eed 3end el ahl: 5aleehum ey3eeshon zamanhum @@!
it only reflects the sorry state of el ahl...

February 20, 2009 at 12:59 AM  

i posted a comment

it got deleted? my browser died :(

February 20, 2009 at 1:28 AM  

Well yeah!!

Parents get tired by their last child that they don't have the will to fight and ground and yell at their child.

BUT.. what my parents did in my case is that I have my eldest sister breathing down my neck. She's only 5 years older, but she's stricter than my mom and in our house even if she was wrong, myseer alasin ili akbar minni.

See I'm no spoilt brat, it depends on the parents and the elder siblings who help by raising the younger ones.

February 20, 2009 at 2:21 AM  

no they dont get tired, bas they get old, and so different from the way they live as youngsters. fa the difference does play a major role.. oo specially when the kid comes at at an age where between the kids and is next older sibling 10 years!!!

February 20, 2009 at 2:59 AM  

yes;p

February 20, 2009 at 3:24 AM  

I would have to agree to a degree.. I'm the youngest,, but I got beat to a pulp and got away with very little! Punished a lot more... to think of it I didn't get away with much! lol

Its the case with some families, and other families it isn't the case!

February 20, 2009 at 7:58 AM  

i just kick their asses whenever i feel like it, ma 7ash-hom eli 7ashni hehe

February 20, 2009 at 10:20 AM  

madre ana a7is lana kil il tejarib it9eer 3al older ones

February 20, 2009 at 10:58 AM  

EXACTLY! :|

February 20, 2009 at 11:11 AM  

im the youngest oo i swear to u i am not like that

February 20, 2009 at 11:26 AM  

i think enna nowadays the concept of brats has spread more than before.. madry i might be wrong bs a7is chithy..

February 20, 2009 at 11:58 AM  

the last line you typed has a "YES" answer PLUS, they are too sensitive and want to rest.

February 20, 2009 at 12:04 PM  

yeah i guess so, i dont know how or why bs childhood hal ayam is so much different from ours, a7is they're growing up way too quickly, sad really

February 20, 2009 at 1:02 PM  

YUPPP. THEY DO.! Oo it isnt THAT big a deal to the parents anymore, they;ve seen it all heard it all, nothing would happen so they think WHY NOT KAIFA 3A6OO BS KHAL YASKET/TASKET

February 20, 2009 at 1:13 PM  

prolly 'cause their parents are too damn lazy/ worn out .....

February 20, 2009 at 4:05 PM  

It is so totally true, but there is good news mixed in there; the parents are so busy looking after the youngest that the older ones can slip under the radar more easily, LOL>

February 20, 2009 at 4:57 PM  

i sooooooooo know what your talking about ... you have to see how my parents treat my baby brother oo how much misses him cause hes in the state studying .... la walla oo il baji ???? bi6ooofa kilina .. ohwa ghair

February 20, 2009 at 6:27 PM  

Not always...i'm the youngest o ma shamait ree7at il dala3 :P
i do think i've had more privelages than my older siblings bas ma7esa dala3 i like to think of it as the right place in the right time.. so my parents seem to expect more out of me
i guess its all relative

February 20, 2009 at 6:34 PM  

i love ur blog
im one of the silent readers, been reading since the beginning!

ha, malhum 5elg yahalhum and we suffer, hathy il mushkelaa..

February 21, 2009 at 1:38 AM  

It depends on the parents, and their family.
im the youngest and im not rude to my siblings, bil3aks full of respect and would do anything they would ask, even when i was a kid.
the new generation is crazy :P

February 21, 2009 at 2:36 AM  

i guess its this new generation !! they are nuts !!

February 21, 2009 at 7:04 AM  

probably because the parents are tired of parenting like you said..

February 21, 2009 at 1:52 PM  

Being a parent i can tell one major thing is that young parents don't agree on the parenting ways.. Example from my home: I love my kids but don't give them presents or anything they ask for but their father comes home with something for them at least 3 times in the week.. so i can't simply tell them you are not getting this or that..

another thing is that they are so open to the world, they have so much information from tv and the internet.. another example form my home lol: if I tell my kid don't do this he would always ask for a reason and goes on of the UNICEF children's right something (they learn in school about children's right of speech).. blah blah blah..

and then i would say I am your mum he'll be like we are all humans so technically we are all the same :?!!?!!!!

well, that is my 12 year old, he's very smart, he doesn't use bad language and is loving and caring.. but thing is, when it comes to discussing something, he would go on and on and on .. it's very tiring..

February 21, 2009 at 2:38 PM  

do parents just get too tired of parenting!
yes they do! umii galat'ha oo b3d el mushkella enna 7ta ana adale3 my younger brothers, oo akther shaii a5er wa7d.. 7adii ma36eeh waih!

mushkela =\

February 21, 2009 at 3:49 PM  

That doesn't happen in our house, i think its because theres barely any age difference between us all + our family is very traditional. Since im second last, my lil sis & i aren't really allowed to be very rude, because we have that 'respect the eldest' going around in our house ;p even if the eldest is wrong!!! so my big sis is the BOSS in the house! im more scared of getting my eldest sis angry than i am of my mother ;s since she is sort of like my second mother ;p

February 21, 2009 at 5:20 PM  

Well I agree with you regarding the age gap part , i have a younger brother sometimes i feel as if he has a vito against everything else we had been forced to !

Klshay mamnoo3 gabel 3alaina
al7een ysaweeh o 3ain gweya b3ad !

The RUDE part is soo true !

February 21, 2009 at 8:59 PM  

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