eshda3wa

July 17, 2008

The Broken Hearted


Dear eshda3wa
How do i heal my broken heart?

yours~
broken hearted



Dear broken hearted, thank you for taking the time to email me but im afraid you have asked the wrong person as my emotions are half dead and i can just toss pain and whatever else behind me. the only advice i can give you is what i have googled which im sure its not what you need.
So lets ask my dear readers


Readers, how does the broken hearted go about healing their heart?

posted by eshda3wa at 12:00 AM

30 Comments:

Find something to occupy your mind.

July 17, 2008 at 12:06 AM  

sorry to be pessimistic bas you Cant :| you can just learn to live with your broken heart

July 17, 2008 at 1:28 AM  

i agree with oreo madness,
you must fill up the space. never leave it chithee, because thats when everything starts going down :(

July 17, 2008 at 1:44 AM  

go back to your own old hobbies or find new ones. WORKS LIKE A CHARM!

as2al mjareb :D

July 17, 2008 at 1:51 AM  

By acknowledging the fact that no man is worth breaking your heart for. You have to understand that 90% of the time the love women feel is self-created and rarely the man himself. We love to fall in love and then when things dont work out (which is often the case) you wallow in the gutter with your PJs and box of chocolate.

Allow yourself to tear up for a day only and then slap yourself and get out of the gutter. There's no need for any therapy, its a simple decision you make. NO man is worth your pain, NO man is worth your tears, NO man is worth breaking your heart for, simple as that.

You come first in everything - make that decision today and do yourself a favor, until you meet a "REAL" man that has the guts to treat you like a princess and protect you in the way that you DESERVE to be treated, then consider opening your heart to that man.

Get over it now!

July 17, 2008 at 1:57 AM  

6annish ta3esh tanta3esh!!

x

N.

July 17, 2008 at 2:02 AM  

I guess by knowing the true value of yourself!

July 17, 2008 at 2:04 AM  

Sushi carries too much hate towards men and is in no position to give advices. Also she/he instantly fired at men without knowing that if broken hearted is a she or he, i see no indication to that matter anywhere within eshda3wa's post. :).

back to her question, I agree with oreo madness and dandoon, fill up the empty space.

July 17, 2008 at 2:49 AM  

it's the path that i have chosen and the spiritual stuff that i've been doing that healed my broken heart. i asked god to heal it and he answered my prayers. it used to always get me w i even make aflam of previous things i've done and get terrified over nothing.. but he helped me, he changed me..

July 17, 2008 at 3:39 AM  

-Surround yourself with the people who mean the most to you
-Join a gym to occupy yourself
-Watch FRIENDS (thats my solution to everything) bs seriously it'll make you smile

July 17, 2008 at 6:35 AM  

It should feel better if you can acknowledge the reasons it became broken and take into consideration that what causes this heartbreak doesn't deserve ANY of your emotions.

Cheer up *huugg*

July 17, 2008 at 7:51 AM  

Time...

July 17, 2008 at 10:03 AM  

whenever you get a physical injury, your body starts a series of natural events to heal what was hurt..
Tissues will be regenerated, all cells will join forces to mend what was broken..

The process takes time, you will feel the pain but it will be relieved..gradually

your soul acts in the same way whenever you get an amotional injury..
it takes time to heal a broken heart, you will cry yourself to sleep, you will miss him/her..you will feel depressed..but these are all parts of the healing process..eventually everything will go away ..and you'll breathe again..the night is always darkest just before the dawn.

But there will be a small scare, to remind you of what you've been through,,and the lesson you've learned from it ..
A broken heart will regenerate itself..just like every other cell in the body

p.s: you can listen to gloria gaynor's "I Will Survive" ;) helps alot

July 17, 2008 at 10:37 AM  

The most important things you must do is to heal your broken heart.
- Try to be with the people who mean the most to you
- Find new hobbies
- Time
Broken heart makes you stronger ! be optimistic !

July 17, 2008 at 12:37 PM  

iam with m

July 17, 2008 at 1:29 PM  

There's a lot of really good advice here - give yourself time, find other ways to occupy your time and keep your mind off your heartbreak, exercise, prayer, keeping up with people you treasure, valuing yourself.

There is one more thing you can only learn to trust by getting through to the other side - there may come a time when this heartbreak will be seen as a blessing. :-) There are WORSE things than losing a love, and one of them is NOT losing him!

July 17, 2008 at 2:44 PM  

Some broken hearts never mend,
Some memories never end,
Some tears will never dry,
My love for you will never die.
Don Williams

July 17, 2008 at 4:38 PM  

ummm .. wala i think the best way is to try and move on .. or maybe time will do ..

July 17, 2008 at 5:51 PM  

time heals:)

July 17, 2008 at 10:07 PM  

alriiight sue johanson!

July 18, 2008 at 12:14 AM  

keep yourself as busy as possible ;p

July 18, 2008 at 2:08 AM  

I love drawing it stops me thinking and makes me express myself. I also read the quraan which just instantly strengthens my heart.

July 18, 2008 at 3:01 AM  

Time Heals All Wounds
or at least it gives you new wounds to take your mind from the old ones :)

July 18, 2008 at 5:44 AM  

I am the wrong person to ask as well LOL... Give it time :-)

July 18, 2008 at 11:22 AM  

Tiger,

I dont carry hatred towards men. What I said is common sense. 90% of the time women break their hearts over stupid men, unless a man proves he's not stupid then he might be worth 1 tear or 2 =))

July 18, 2008 at 1:43 PM  

There ain't really a remedy for broken hearts.
You have to let it break you to pieces until you realize that the time has come to move on and live your life.
Just don't suppress your feelings and it's ok to cry and shed alot of tears. It's comforting and will help you get through.

Hope you all the best inshalla.

July 18, 2008 at 3:55 PM  

BROKEN HEARTS SUCK
THE SUKETY SUCKY SUCK
W3333

but u can't do anything thats a feeling in time it will go away ...

July 18, 2008 at 5:48 PM  

It will take some time

and some times long time

:(


May Allah give you the strength to keep you moving in the healing journy

It is not easy

But you can do it

Insha-Alah

July 18, 2008 at 8:08 PM  

Give yourself a few days to drown in your emotions. Tears are good... they cleanse your soul. They keep yourself busy with work, social outings, shopping... someone else will come along, but learn to love yourself first.

Good luck :) Happy healing...

July 20, 2008 at 11:30 PM  

Time....

July 21, 2008 at 8:27 PM  

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