eshda3wa
March 2, 2009
Man burger
My friend F wanted nothing more from life than to get married and have lots of babies.
She was worried that being in medical school would reduce her chances ??
i never figured out why.
Shes the most talkative person i know. The girl just rambles on and on and on none stop. It annoys the life out of me but she has a very good heart.
Her dream came true and she got married to a nice young man from a good family.
They dated for a short while and then got hitched.
She was happy, over the moon happy, and all we ever heard about was my husband this my husband that day in day out.
They have been trying to make a baby for sometime now, but not succeeding.
So after a series of tests it was discovered that her husband had no swimmers.
After that he turned into a monster. He started abusing her both verbally and physically.
And i know theres a long psychological bull crap analysis of how the two things are related.
Doesn't change the fact hes an ass and no man at all.
Her family know, and want her to leave him. But what surprised me was her dad.
He didn't even take time out of his day to talk to the ass. He did tell her to leave him, but took no action to actually stop him.
I'm sure he has his reasons.
I feel so bad for her.
If i ever get married and my husband hit me. My dad and brother would grind him up and present him to me as a man burger .
Id eat him and enjoy every bite!
40 Comments:
OMG 7araaaaaaaaaaaaaam!
whats the hell is wrong with him !!
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allah ykon eb 3oonha
The last part did not sound great;s
yea kuwaiti taboo and BS, i bet they told her to hold it together and be patient
anon
ameen
hasan b
the first part wasnt supposed to either !
mohd
i dunno
i really hope they didnt
This is soo bad :(
and ewww you would actually eat him? lol
sad <_<
wallah such men mn eymed eedah 3al woman ey6ee7 mn 3ainy...
may god have mercy on her..
eshda3wa,enjoy being single,....
:DD
how sad!
allah y3enha enshallah.
I don't understand parents that are willing to see their child live in a hellhole rather than doing something about it.
Maybe malhom khilg kalam inas?
Allah ya kon fe 3onha inshallah. Seriously I think hitting a woman is not something related for being a man. It's actually coming from feeling blna89 wa jealousy. I hope her dad would rear into action and stop him once and for all.
Well he is an ass but there is a medical solution. So, why is he angry? No one is perfect, he could have just do a surgery anything to help them going. She is not responsible for what happened to him. I guess he was in denial. allah yesa3edha inshallah.
7aram! He is such a stupid man =(, it's not your friend's fault. About my post,I better make explanation here, coz there's a psycho stalker in my blog, she keep on imitated me and added up many blogger from my list. The reason I wrote in Arabic coz she don't understand, she is Indian. Well I confronted her why she added up all the people I know and she said that its the other blogger who added her. I know she is such a big ass liar(coz I know her since long time ago in real life and she like to show off and lie a lot but like I care coz I don't like gossip, she always ask me do I have gossip or secret to tell her LOL, she's stupid!), I saved all our conversations in FB and print screen what she wrote bad things about Arab. I'm gonna keep this as an evidence if she dare to cross her limits, I'm gonna post it! Then she challenge me, she knew that I'm a law student, and she keep on provoke me to do anything to her if I can, she keep on saying sue me sue me if you can. She called me an "it"-7yawana LOL, I'm gonna take it in positive sense, yea yea I'm the IT girl, the hip happening girl, LOL. OMG seriously she cracked me up for being so childish. Its like a 3rd grader fights! I'm gonna use my evidence as defamation she wrote about me, she knew nothing about law in cyberspace(copyright,privacy,stalking or defamation) and she keep on provoke me, hehe, seriously, I could use this against her. Her brain is so small wallah. I was like wondering, are all Indians have attitude problem or what? Then she turned out to be one! I already circulated the "conversations" or also known as my "evidence" to blogger that are involved by emails. They was shocked and was like WTH, she is the one who added us! Now they knew the truth =) Then they asked me to be careful of her coz she seems psycho and just ignore her. That's what I'm doing, I'm ignoring her and now fire burn in her ass coz she get no response from us, she banned some blogger from viewing her blog. Yea like we inetested in her, LOL, she is nasty, wallah!
well i know its sad but u'd be suprised how fathers can let things go :s
oh .. i'm so sorry to hear that .. I hate that so much .. may God help her .. and give her the best !!
The guy is obviously insecure, she, being talkative targeted two things:
-Her pushing him for medication. Typical Kuwaitis wouldn't go for that.
-Him afraid of her being talkative, blow his cover. Might as well suck her blood out before she thinks it.
My take ? I feel sorry for her, her dad is a coward. The husband was insecure, his cover is blown so he turns to this insane being, He must face reality, do his medical checkups, loves and takes care of her.
in other words, he should man up.
she should keep it on the low.
Just my 2 cents.
back to the angry posts?
shaklech entay eli betkafkheen raylich.
:(
Chinna he wants her to leave him... thats why he is abusing her so it would be her own decision to leave????
I tell u why girls in medical school have less chances of marriage...
Men here are insecure and clingy. They do not want a woman with khafara, spending time away at a hospital when she should be mothering him...
Men also do not like their wives to be more intelligent and more important and prestigious than them, of course unless the man himself is a dr.
So i think that it is ture that the chance is less with being a dr. BUT... now why would u want to take a chance with this kind of man?! The man who will propose to a Dr. has no complexity issues and is confident o understanding...
F has to decide if her husband is abusing her out of his love to make her leave him willingly, or if he is doing that becasue thats the only way he thinks he will gain her respect to him as a man...
If it is the latter, then she must depart at once.
If it is the first option, she must sit him down and assure him that she is not going to leave him and she doesnt think he is any less a man than anyother, granted of course she is willing to stay with him forever...
As for her dad, he clearly thinks she should stay with her husband and it is a marital manner... many men are impassive in that way, community thingies and connections and such... sickening of course but to them it's vital...
O it is usually customary for a woman to stay in a childless marriage in Q8 if the man is the cause, wayed it happens.
but i have yet to hear about a man staying in a childless marraige in q8 if the woman is the cause...
omg.. that is so sad!! ya3ni why hit her, its like he is taking out what he lacks in her.. maskeeena =(
waaaay 7araaaaaaaaaaaam ;///
Allah ysam7a! don't u think it might be for a short time athar el 9adma w nafseeta? w ba3dain he'll be ok?? ;s
maskeena.. Allah ykoon eb 3onha ;x
miskeena, i feel sorry for her :'(
allah y3eenha
I'll have 1 mega size man burger with extra man fries <- yummy ? ;p
wala '67ktniiii
luv ur blog hope u post more often ;p
o ala e3w'6 your friend inshala :D
i feel sorry for her, allah ye3eenha
she should of dating him more, at least, to more of him..
Maskeena!
:(
Maybe he feels he lacks something and he's the one responsible for them not having kids and therefore he vented out on her physically. There's no excuse for a man to lay his hand on a woman but if she really loves him and wants to save her marriage, she should make him feel like it doesn't matter if he's not fertile.
Lots of couples are happy with healthy relationships without kids. She could encourage him to work on it unless he's a hopeless case with too much psychotic weirdness.
Why ISN'T she leaving him? ;s
These things work out but very rarely, jerana ya7lailhum , he can't have kids but she loves him and they've been together since forever..
alla ykoon b3ounhaa !
whats wrong with him :s no whats wrong with her parents!! How can they allow him to beat her up =s what the hell!
allah eykoon fe 3oonha.. kesrat 5a6rii
7raam i feel sorry for her , but i don`t know what other people will think of me , but dad told my husband before we got married : we don`t want anything from you ma 3ndna shroo6 bas elyoom ele tmed eedeik 3ala bnte hatha akher yoom b7yatik ma3ahaa
hashay waayed mohem o iguess waayed parents think about it the same way
but my sis inlow 6agha her husband o she couldn`t stay away more than one week o her family yaboonha trj3la o she told me during this week that she thinks of getting pregnant again etha radat 7ag her husband !!! i couldn`t talk to her anymore cuz madree ma at7maal ensana bdoon karaama
ambeeh sorry for my esht6a6 bas e7treet
I had a Kuwaiti girlfriend who "held it together" and who endured almost 20 years of being beaten and abused (endless parade of girlfriends, etc.). Her father turned his back on her; she and her sisters turned their back on their father. For YEARS. It finally ended in divorce (she asked). She remarried a man who she loves and is happy with. Oh- and BTW - she had 5 children - not none.
My advice: Get out and find happiness elsewhere. What does she want from the guy? He's already hit her/abused her. It isn't like she's staying married for the children.
Get out, girlfriend, and find someone who will ADORE you and treat you with the respect you deserve!
If a man hits you once, you are on the road to a series of beatings.
Religiously, she doesn't have to stay with him because he can't have children. There is no shame.
I would imagine her father feels bad for him; when he SHOULD feel bad for his daughter.
Thats strange! I would not take that kind of abuse no matter what! Alla yesa3id-ha! What the hell is wrong with her dad!!
Anything except physical and verbal abuse!!
This crap must be stopped!
and that's why they do medical check up BEFORE marriage.
OMG! Poor her! Allah y3eenha nshallah . Thats terrible, matstahal mskeeneh.
Alah esa3diha!
There is no justification for hitting a woman..
Its tough for the father just to intervene.. its a little bit more delicate then that.. alah ekoon fee 3oonhum!
maskeeena =s
i think her dad ya3ni ma yaby yirdakhal.. bs when it comes to hitting i think he should do something not sit and watch his daughter getting abused..
That's really sad!
maynoon mu 9a7ii.. al 7imdallah oo al sheker!!
allah yefekhaa mna enshallah oo telga laha 3'eeraa oo etyeeb babies! wallah 7aram ma testahel!
bs i believe that everything happened for a reason.... ya tra shnu el reasons for what happened to her, only God knows!
Maybe the dad can't say anything to him for some reasons that we don't know about and as u said akeed 3ndah sabb why
i don't think that there is a father in this world that would see his daughter getting beatin up and not do anything akeed fee sabb that we don't know about
and for him hitting her while there could be another reason for it not coz they can't have babies well maybe they were realy happy and she kept telling everyone about how happy they are and ppl saw how happy they were so ymkn yekoon 3ain, coz alnas 7asoodah marrah o blthat halaym coz alot of gilrs can't get married and coz medical students blthat don't get married alot
i know it may sound stupid and i never used to believe 7ased o 3ain much but after wt i'v seen in the past year i think enah kthr halayam o mn jd lazm kl wa7d ye7a9en nafsah ..
p.s
i didn't re-read wt i wrote so mashi 7alk lao fee alot of typo's :P
I don't know why her dad didn't go talk to him but you know some men when they get angry yafqidoon so moo mal yro7oon y7achoon a7ad m3a9been 3alai. I mean they could go really far to the point of beating someone senseless and get into jail because of that. Ma7ad yabee fithaayi7 and I do hope that your friend's husband repents for what he's done to her and that he changes to the better.
If it were the other way around, he would've MOST likely got a second wife.
If she is getting abused she shouldn't tolerate this crap. I mean it is one thing that she has to live with the fact that he cannot have babies (3FANALLAH AND ALLAH EY3EENEH)
and now abuse her?
A woman would usually would be patient with a man she loves in crisis, even with the image most guys have about girls being naggers.
You should advise her to seek help and try to communicate with him and see why did he turn into a monster...? if it this thing that made him monster his insecurity obviously she try to create a dialogue and communicate with one another and bridge the gap with one another.
If it didn't work, and he allowed it to ruin their marriage... She should just leave.
Inshallah a better more worthy ne9eeb will come her way :) Who knows?
u said it..
She has a good heart...
I dont know but thats at least to me the divine system..
u eat shit if ur good..so u turn to heaven when u die...
Omg the poor girl. When you said a med student who's afraid that she won't get married. I remembered myself. I have this phobia too. Allah 3eenha.
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