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September 13, 2008

The Day I Beat Up My Fathers Girlfriend III


*read part I and II in the previous posts

I drove back home with every intention to end this Thursday like it started. Perfectly normal.
I walked in and saw my mother sitting in the living room watching tv. I kissed her forehead and entered my room.
Once I walked in everything I have done came rushing back at me, flooding me one minit and totally draining me the next. Ever since I found out about my dad i hadn't had a good nights sleep. I needed to get in bed, just lay down and breath.
I crawled in still wearing my shoes and closed my eyes.

Where is she! Where the hell is she?! I could hear my fathers voice somewhere far away.

He knows.
Should I pretend I don't know what he's talking about. Should I lock myself in my room?
Or should I just confront him and get it over with?!!

I didnt have time to come to a decision. My father came barging into my room with my mother at his heels a look of total confusion on her face.

What did you do! How dare you! How dare you ! he screamed

What did she do! asked my mom panicked

I sat up slowly in bed.

How dare I, I hissed, really dad!

What were you thinking! Thats totally irresponsible of you! Shes threatening to go to the police!

Police ! Whats going on! My moms hands flew to her heart

We both ignored her.

You want to talk about responsibility! Lets talk about yours daddy! While you so casually tossed us aside I was trying to save this family!

I did not raise you to act like that!

And I suppose your parents raised you to cheat on your wife !

My dad slapped me across the face. Hard!

I could feel my whole left side throbbing.

Cheat on his wife my mom whispered

Should I tell her or do you want to? I said angrily

My dad did not reply

I turned to her trying to hold back my tears and told her, I just came from an apartment in shaab where I beat up your husbands girlfriend.

My moms knees buckled and she fell to the floor.

To say that this perfectly normal Thursday was the most dramatic in my life would be an understatement.
It can only be topped by the Apocalypse.

In the months that followed my family went through a hell of a roller coaster ride.

My dad stopped talking to me.
My mom left my dad and moved back to her parents place where she stayed for 6 months.

My dad came back crawling with his tail between his legs and begged my mom to come back home.

Eventually she did.
And slowly, very slowly my family started to put pieces of itself back together.

Its been a long time now, and were the happiest we have been in ages.

I don't regret beating that bitch. And yes I do know my dad deserves a beating just as much as she did, but if i could turn back time id walk up to apartment twenty three in a heartbeat.


*this story is true as told to me by the girl who beat up her fathers girlfriend
posted by eshda3wa at 12:00 AM

60 Comments:

oh so sad !

hope you guys are all sticking together with full of happiness and peaceful.

September 13, 2008 at 12:18 AM  

nothing can heal what has been broken.. bs inshallah allah ywafiqhom w y3inhom

September 13, 2008 at 12:26 AM  

yumaaa! o obooha la 3een ba3ad!

poor the mother :(

il7emdellah everything is ok with them now ..

but i dont believe things could be ever the same .. lazem deep inside fe shay taghayar!

wish them all the best :D

September 13, 2008 at 12:30 AM  

wow! the mother has a big heart for being able to forgive her husband!
oo the girl has a bold spirit mashallah oo wise..

September 13, 2008 at 12:31 AM  

The slap is typical of a man like him and I'm happy that things are back together. Its frustrating to see how weak some of these men and women are, there was no reason for him to cheat.. what should he say he is bored? Well the girl did something about it, might not have been the smartest thing, but something came of it and I can understand her rage..

September 13, 2008 at 12:33 AM  

i hate happy endings

September 13, 2008 at 12:39 AM  

NOOOOOOOO! I do not want it to end!!

Ask Curly Sue to find something else so you can write about it.

The Question is, why did you decide to write about her story?

September 13, 2008 at 12:42 AM  

glad they are still one happy family..that is what matters to me!

September 13, 2008 at 12:42 AM  

I still insist that what she did was very foolish and stupid.

September 13, 2008 at 12:56 AM  

Yallah .. at least the ending was a happy one :)

September 13, 2008 at 12:57 AM  

il obo ily yabeela 6rag wala mo el bint maskeena kafakh'haaa

September 13, 2008 at 1:10 AM  

pella
thank u

zamhareer
i agree n thanks

anon
sa7 once something is done it can never be undone

je
ee alot of women forgive way too easily

marzouq
yeah i have yet to hear something close to a good reason for a man or woman to cheat.

plastic
not a fan of diseny movies i take it?

purg
dont worry i have a lot more family drama stories.
i wrote about her because shes the only person i know that beat her fathers girlfriend

big pearls
i hope they really are not just pretending to be

hasan.b
it might be, but everyone sees things differently

cat
yeah el7mdela

um mit3ib
ee wallah!

September 13, 2008 at 1:40 AM  

At lest it ended well... things like that can really break a family beyond repair

September 13, 2008 at 2:03 AM  

the whole thing was handled very badly, since when do daughters get to "teach" their dad's a lesson?!


the way i see it, she could have dealt with the situation with more maturity and less violence.. what if something bad had happened to the mistress? who would be to blame? it could have gone badly..


anyways.. cheating happens everyday, to most people.. how they deal with it is what makes the difference :)

September 13, 2008 at 2:19 AM  

I just feel so sorry for the mom :(


and nothing can heal wt the have been through
their gonna be scared no matter how normal they pretend to be

September 13, 2008 at 2:39 AM  

well to say, you've done a very well job putting a story into a post ;) That girl is brave and I admire her bravery.

September 13, 2008 at 2:49 AM  

I feel sorry for the mom and I even feel more sorry for the girl cuz ihya ili kalat`ha. She's the one who found out, she's the one who took action, she the one who broke the news to her mom, she's the one who got slapped.

September 13, 2008 at 3:12 AM  

Sij mayiste7i 3ala wayha..
Maskeena the mother, kasra kha6rii..
bas mashalllah the girl is so brave!

September 13, 2008 at 3:51 AM  

shlon etredla?! if it were up to me I WOULD NEVER LET HIM TOUCH ME! SHLON ETREDLA!!!!!!!

September 13, 2008 at 4:13 AM  

OMG
OMG
OMG
that is so sad and the best part is beating her fathers girlfriend !

What is great about family .. that what ever happen they come back to each other ... bad things happen in life as lessons to us

Am glad that things turn good at the end

September 13, 2008 at 4:20 AM  

I see no happy ending here, what i see is a compromise that satifies the father. I am sorry to tell you, that this ain't over by a long shot, once the hunter is out, he will sooner or later hunt again. Most of my Kuwaiti friends parents, are married to 2-3 wives. Once he makes her ligit you can do shit. Save your strength for your own husband. Good Luck

September 13, 2008 at 4:22 AM  

aurous
sure can

FB
i guess whn your not in the heart of the situation u can think analyze and come to a conclusion..
allah la yable a7ad

balqees
yep
thats the sad truth

batoul
brave and a lil crazy
and thank u!

ruby woo
yeah bs the girl is anything but sorry

houliee
ee mesakeen
bs their ok now

sh7afana
i guess 25 years r hard to throw away

feelingstalk
yeah but somethings can tear familys apart forever

hellraiser
such negative energy!

September 13, 2008 at 4:51 AM  

Wohooo. I can totally relate to this story, except it didn't include any beating lol. 3afya 3alaiha :)

September 13, 2008 at 5:47 AM  

wedy akafe5 il ubu!!

September 13, 2008 at 6:00 AM  

That girl is a hero in my eyes

its so hard to think straight in such a situation where everything is on her shoulders, and she has no one to turn to, shes the only one who could take action.

I hope they really do become a strong family once again..and that history doesnt repeat itself

September 13, 2008 at 6:00 AM  

Ele7emdellah everything is better now. ashwa raya7teeni,i was worried what would happen to your friend.

September 13, 2008 at 6:40 AM  

I just read all 3 in one go....kash sha3ar yambi....waaay waaay waaay

madri shagol ;S

September 13, 2008 at 10:49 AM  

wow!!
thats someone with alotta guts!!
even though i cant believe the mom forgave the dad in the end :)

September 13, 2008 at 11:02 AM  

I just read the previous parts and i can relate to it so much.

I'm really glad the girl took a action, and however violent it was, she stood up for her beliefs and family values which is quite strong.

I admire her. And i hope it doesn't reach other families, this is so devastating :\

September 13, 2008 at 11:37 AM  

its very easy to say she should have wila she did badly wila whatever lakin ma7ad yigdar y7is bil mawgif ila law howa kan feeh. allah y3eenha.

bas a7san ineh chee istawat wila it5ayali saktat oo since kuwait is so small ba3d shwaya il deera kilha 3arfat 3an the gf. fashla

September 13, 2008 at 12:40 PM  

HEEEEEEEEEYA!!!! 6ala3at galbi ba3ad chabdi!!! fathers suck!

September 13, 2008 at 12:44 PM  

i guess she's always have this memory along with her .. scars are not easily removed .. and she's have million of scenarios of what could have i done better .. she acted within instinct of saving her family .. and she did eventually :D

September 13, 2008 at 1:36 PM  

what happened to appt 23 ?

September 13, 2008 at 3:34 PM  

Im not sure if I see the girl as a hero or a person who could've handled the situation differently.. but I can only imagine how hard that must of been, so I understand the rage... glad that everything is ok for her now:)

September 13, 2008 at 3:49 PM  

She should be proud of herself:)

September 13, 2008 at 3:58 PM  

Wow... Im not sure if this story is about you or someone else, but YOU are strong... very strong... and you kept the family together. What might have seemed like a mistake in your father eyes... is the best thing you could every do for him.. and your mom.

Allah yikhaleekom 7ag ba3ath inshallah.

September 13, 2008 at 4:23 PM  

I;m glad things went back to the way they were. She and her mom deserve that, bs ohwa el 7aywan doesn't.

September 13, 2008 at 5:02 PM  

Wow... this story is amazing.....!!!

September 13, 2008 at 5:04 PM  

layla
ee baredat chabdha!

omtanoo7
ana ba3ad

desertpalms
yeah theres no saying how anyone would act in a situation like that!

dreamgirl
shes one tough nail

DR
u should have seen the girls face wehya etgooli the story

dandoon
women. u can never make sense of anything they do

ms loala
it is devastating. the father didnt think of anyone but himself. inshallah ma7ad y9eer feeh chithy

3anooda
like the mathal says
ele ebda bel may moo nafs ele eda belnar

eulaila
dont u wish we all had her guts

princess fam
yes she did.. good 4 her!

mjkout
haw she beat her fathers girlfriend!

purelyorchid
shes neither a hero or a lunatic
shes simply a girl who wanted to save her family

amethyst
she is!

irise
its not about me, but she really is strong. 3al aqal baredat chabdha oo chabd omha maskeena

abiomoabioboy
no he doesnt
he deserves to be miserable for the rest of eternity

hamitaf
filim haa

September 13, 2008 at 5:17 PM  

3afya 3alaiha!!!

September 13, 2008 at 7:13 PM  

Well el7imdilla everything is ok in the end ^^

i wish them a nice and happy life.

September 13, 2008 at 7:21 PM  

ely kan lazim yen6ag el obo i totaly agreee

September 13, 2008 at 9:37 PM  

Wow.. I'm relieved. I was afraid her mother would never go back home.

September 14, 2008 at 1:41 AM  

This is sad and depressing, but it happens.

I guess I can understand why the mother forgave her husband. She had a family, and a life that she worked so long and hard to build.

*sigh*

September 14, 2008 at 6:10 AM  

**shakes her head** once a bastard always a bastard..men..

September 14, 2008 at 7:35 AM  

her mom shouldnt have gone back home. once a cheater always a cheater, i should know, my dads the same...

and may7acheeha? MAY7ACHEEHA!! god!

September 14, 2008 at 9:27 AM  

irresponsible dad :P

September 14, 2008 at 3:01 PM  

sugar
eeh! 9ij 3afya 3alaiha

G
thank u

nemo
fe3lan

pinkish
el7mdela 3ala kel 7al

bownarrow
i can never get WHY it happens

lil
shinsaw ba3ad
cant live with them.. cant shoot em

princess
u never know wat goes through a womans head when in a situation like this

falantan
a lot more than just irresponsibility

September 14, 2008 at 3:50 PM  

mu kaser 5a6ry ela hal um wallah!
3al aqal el bent 6ala3t 7arat'ha bl girlfriend w kofenat'ha!

9j el obo ma yest7y dash el bait ye9are5!! w bravo 3al um ely she can forgive!

allah y3enhoum, w yesahel 2umorhoum.. 3al aqal now they seems ok! even though a7s 3emrhoum mara7 yerdoun methel qabl.. bs enshallah!

September 14, 2008 at 5:12 PM  

cheating husband? Can I live with it? forgive? I dont think I can if -God forbids- it happens to me! The father's defense mechanism was to slap his daughter hard! Coward! Her actions were a bit foolish and I dont believe in hitting and fighting this way... but I give her reasons for whatever she did!

September 14, 2008 at 8:03 PM  

awwwwwwww maskeenaAt lest it ended well...

September 14, 2008 at 8:30 PM  

my god this story t3war elgalb :( wala when i read it i felt so bad i have no idea how did she do that but i think it was for the best a7sn tstaaahel !

September 14, 2008 at 8:48 PM  

GOOD FOR HER...ow allah yhade serhom inshallah

I think its 10 times worst when a man has a girlfriend than a secret second wife...that shows how far he can go without ever looking back

its disguesting wallah

September 14, 2008 at 11:44 PM  

no twists! aww..kidding, anyway MIRVAT?? what the hell kind of 60's dad is hers anyway...

September 14, 2008 at 11:53 PM  

bas lish alobow khan zojtah ?
sheno esebab ?

September 15, 2008 at 12:18 AM  

i wudint be calling him "daddy" that's for sure...

September 15, 2008 at 2:37 AM  

serves this mervat right

September 15, 2008 at 10:07 AM  

She is so brave!
:)

September 15, 2008 at 11:07 AM  

DAMN!!
I was waiting for you to tell me that it was all a missunderstanding!! That it was a poor lady he was helping God Damn it!!

I hate him :(

September 16, 2008 at 8:13 PM  

I bet he's still seeing her or another! Not strange on MEN!

September 24, 2008 at 3:31 PM  

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