eshda3wa
July 11, 2007
Guilt Trip
Guilt is a very complex emotion
sending others on guilt trips, as mean as it sounds, is very empowering
the things u can get people to do when they feel guilty is nothing short of amazing
parents, siblings, friends, co-workers.
Guilt-trip is my middle name, the person i send packing on these trips the most is my self
hell i feel guilty if someone gives me too much love
i really need to just learn to enjoy things
i feel guilty if i ask my dad for cash, i feel guilty when i plan a trip and not include my sisters
i feel guilty having a very deep conversation with H when i still did not have it with Z
Guilty Guilty Guilty
i felt guilty after going snorkeling, why u mite wonder? cause i thought to myself how would i like it if someone just wandered in my house to just look around
Then i feel guilty about making myself feel guilty
its a vicious cycle
Sending other people on guilt trips mite be fun and beneficiary for the most part, but sending yourself by yourself for nothing, its draining!
44 Comments:
i like sending others on guilt trips :p i usually stop when it comes to myself
so yea u should prolly work on that
and DAMN the moderation i dunno if i shotgunned or not bes i doubt it i did :P
oo and i fixed the font :p
guilt makes us better.
some guilt is ok but a lot of it baaaaaaaaaaaaad for joo :p
and yeah i do enjoy making ppl feel guilty :p
u said it yourself, you should learn to enjoy things! *HUGSS*
the solution to all this is marraige:P
5osh 7achy bas tegalgelat 7nochna men "guilty" :P
Wow. Its like I am looking at a mirror. It is like you are describing me.
I always go on guilt trips whether I am doing an activity with some friends and not others, or whether I am alone not engaging in any.
I also feel that too much love guilt and the obligation to show them love in return even if I don't really like them.
I can’t even sleep when I feel guilty about something .. I hate this feeling it just makes u do things that you might regret later !!
Go easy on yourself 7abibtie
thats a great trait and its a blessing from god wallah
some ppl wreak lives and dont even twitch!!
Wow that is nothing but a never ending cycle! Don't tire yourself too much, relax and enjoy yourself when you deserve it!
You aren't doing anything wrong so don't feel bad about it!
lol @ 'i felt guilty after going snorkeling, why u mite wonder? cause i thought to myself how would i like it if someone just wandered in my house to just look around'
Dont tell me you felt guilty after writting this post :D cheer up!
I agree with Hamza. I think you described most of us here. Guilt is a powerful thing.
how do we train to remove guilt from our emotion list, i wish it was as simple as the emoticons on msn lol
7elwa um-mit3ib !! seems to be the answer to a lot of things :)
i also tend to tip-toe around ppl too much. it's not right, but i'm improving with time
Blue dress .. Shut up @@
Eshda3wa - Why do you do that to urself?
I a2ayed Missy ..
I tried to post a comment but it wasnt ! Anyways ! This is the best post , we all do it and go on a guilt trip or send some one on the guilt trip ! thats life and its fun !
The things you feel guilty about are taken for granted since the start of the earth.
You should feel guilty taking advantage of someone you barely know :P
ola! and lol 3ala el the snorkling thing, think of it as not intruding into their homes but rather talking a ride on their streets ;p
btw how do u feel when u eat chocolate?
i stopped feeling guilty about anything since 2 weeks ago
u sholud do that to
cause nothing worth it
just enjoy ur time :D
do0da
zaiin 3ala fixin the font
ill go read now
and i do need to work on that
do u have an instruction manual i can use?
blue dress
really?
i disagree
nomad
i think we all do
its a guilty pleasure
hiff duno wat to do about not makin myself feel guilty!
missy
easier said than done
HUG
um-mit3ib
looooooool
aham shay
rekoo
hussain be nice!
hamza
u sound as bad as iam
we really need to find a solution to all this, im gna get grey hairs before my time!!
navy girl
i think guilt makes me more consederate of my actions
and yeah i lose sleep too
ghasheema
a blessing?
it feels more like a punishment
sure a lil guilt and sensivity mite be good
but i think im a notch over board!
marzouq
i want to stop
i want to just enjoy things
bs madre how!
hey.. -hug-
the worst kind of guilt is when u feel guilty about someone's death.. like it's ur fault, u keep blaming urself..
i send ppl on guilt trips.. sometimes to get what i want, not in a mean way, really :)
i hate takin these trips though, dreadful :(
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It's the double-guessing myself that bugs me!
amu
no i was ok
<-- cheers up
kj
its very powerful
u got the guilt sydrome too?!
zed
lol
god i wish it was that easy too!!
joud
i dont mind the tip toeing
nothing wrong with being careful
but the guilt!
my god!
fayoora
lol
ana ba3ad a2yd missy
bs madre shloon i apply!
grey
not all the time its not!
ms loala
lol
i dnt want to add more things i should be guilty about!!
bored
i dont feel guilty about food especially chocolate
thats a good thing in my opinion
free moi
good for u
but how?
Te6ewef is the key word here :P
give a 6af 6af 6af and 6af oo live ur life
cause when u do that u'll just live an awfull life life ...
and i told ma self that nothing worth it....
just live ur life 4 u not 4 any one
Actually it is a sign that your conscious is still alive.
And I must admit making “you” feel guilty for normal things is draining!!!
Whenever you feel guilty over something not worth feeling guilty of, remind yourself that whatever it is you deserve the best. ;)
For me personally, I can deal with making myself feel guilty but I cannot deal with making someone else feel guilty. Especially if it wasn’t my intention to begin with!
Actually it is a sign that your conscious is still alive.
And I must admit making “you” feel guilty for normal things is draining!!!
Whenever you feel guilty over something not worth feeling guilty of, remind yourself that whatever it is you deserve the best. ;)
For me personally, I can deal with making myself feel guilty but I cannot deal with making someone else feel guilty. Especially if it wasn’t my intention to begin with!
im feeling guilty reading this post ;| i agree with um-mit3ib!:P
Sending others on guilt trips, yeah it feels good, but 3war galb for the others..
But when you feel guilty about the stuff you mentioned...come on eshda3wa, I think its nothing but a big heart...galbech kbeer and you have care and consideration for others...that is a good thing eshda3wa =)
Dont feel bad about it..
yay i can finally comment! stop feeling so guilty arent u sick of it?! :P
When you realize what you're doin, i.e. makin yourself feel guilty just think about something else and make it something positive :)
I was gonna comment "i know how it feels" when i started reading the post, but towards the end i figured i dont know how u feel. Hmm. That's kinda extreme no? I hope u get over it cuz it can be veeery stressful. Guilt in itself mot3ib hal mara extreme guilt. About everything. U really shud worry less and enjoy more.
if you stick one thing, you would definately going in circles with it. That's why we MUST break the rules once in awhile. What I'm trying to say is don't be guilty about everything and everything. Just thinking about what you're doing makes me goin' in circles with ya! It's crazy!
guilt is harsh .. but fair.
i recently found out.
wow! no honey dnt do this to urself, u shouldnt feel guilty for things that are i dunno, enjoy things and just madre, i dnt know wat to say hehe forget it, just dnt feel guilty hehe :*
I think I read somewhere that guilt is one of the most self-destructive human emotions. From the sounds of it, the things you feel guilty about haven’t earned that kind of guilt level. I think you feel guilty not because you deserve it but rather because you’re an idealist. You have to behave in an absolutely perfect manner in order to accept yourself? I’m just analyzing here I could be way off and forgive me if I am. But if you are an idealist or a perfectionist, let me ask you this: do you know anyone at all who behaves in the ideal manner or whose behavior is never questionable? Now do they deserve to feel the level of guilt you do? Darling sometimes we just need to accept our own humanity and live with being less than ideal. You can try to improve yourself without shredding yourself to pieces when you don’t reach perfection. On a personal note, just knowing you as a blogger I think innich ityaneneen mashalla and it saddens me that you judge yourself so harshly when you’re so clearly adored by many.
have you been talking to my gf lately?!
She's excellent at those. And, just like you, she always manages to get herself caught in a self-guilt, self-pity episode that just drive me nuts!
I don't know what to tell you except that there are times when we all need to be a bit selfish and think only of ourselves.
You scream my language :}
dear friend, i'm on an every day guilt-trip. i am sure you've read about them in my posts.
but what i realise is that because you feel such guilt, you're more human because its the voice of your conscience reminding you to do right by those you love.
Nice post! Im like you, I even feel guilty when I'm trying to be mean to someone that deserves it. I wish I knew how to deal with guilt so it doesn't bother me!
i'm guessing you get pre-action guilt aswell.. right?
so2al!!!
laish dayman emcha3matni?
its ok to feel a little bit guilty but not all the time, i'm like u and its something that i cant stand 5a9atn if i feel guilty all the time.
I dread the feeling of being guilty and I love sending "some" on a guilt trip.. they deserve it sometimes ;P
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