eshda3wa

July 11, 2007

Guilt Trip


Guilt is a very complex emotion


sending others on guilt trips, as mean as it sounds, is very empowering


the things u can get people to do when they feel guilty is nothing short of amazing


parents, siblings, friends, co-workers.


Guilt-trip is my middle name, the person i send packing on these trips the most is my self


hell i feel guilty if someone gives me too much love


i really need to just learn to enjoy things


i feel guilty if i ask my dad for cash, i feel guilty when i plan a trip and not include my sisters


i feel guilty having a very deep conversation with H when i still did not have it with Z


Guilty Guilty Guilty


i felt guilty after going snorkeling, why u mite wonder? cause i thought to myself how would i like it if someone just wandered in my house to just look around


Then i feel guilty about making myself feel guilty


its a vicious cycle


Sending other people on guilt trips mite be fun and beneficiary for the most part, but sending yourself by yourself for nothing, its draining!

posted by eshda3wa at 12:30 AM

44 Comments:

i like sending others on guilt trips :p i usually stop when it comes to myself

so yea u should prolly work on that

and DAMN the moderation i dunno if i shotgunned or not bes i doubt it i did :P

oo and i fixed the font :p

July 11, 2007 at 1:26 PM  

guilt makes us better.

July 11, 2007 at 2:12 PM  

some guilt is ok but a lot of it baaaaaaaaaaaaad for joo :p
and yeah i do enjoy making ppl feel guilty :p

July 11, 2007 at 2:47 PM  

u said it yourself, you should learn to enjoy things! *HUGSS*

July 11, 2007 at 3:29 PM  

the solution to all this is marraige:P

July 11, 2007 at 4:16 PM  

5osh 7achy bas tegalgelat 7nochna men "guilty" :P

July 11, 2007 at 6:00 PM  

Wow. Its like I am looking at a mirror. It is like you are describing me.

I always go on guilt trips whether I am doing an activity with some friends and not others, or whether I am alone not engaging in any.

I also feel that too much love guilt and the obligation to show them love in return even if I don't really like them.

July 11, 2007 at 6:35 PM  

I can’t even sleep when I feel guilty about something .. I hate this feeling it just makes u do things that you might regret later !!

July 11, 2007 at 8:16 PM  

Go easy on yourself 7abibtie

thats a great trait and its a blessing from god wallah

some ppl wreak lives and dont even twitch!!

July 11, 2007 at 10:49 PM  

Wow that is nothing but a never ending cycle! Don't tire yourself too much, relax and enjoy yourself when you deserve it!

You aren't doing anything wrong so don't feel bad about it!

July 11, 2007 at 11:50 PM  

lol @ 'i felt guilty after going snorkeling, why u mite wonder? cause i thought to myself how would i like it if someone just wandered in my house to just look around'

Dont tell me you felt guilty after writting this post :D cheer up!

July 12, 2007 at 8:41 AM  

I agree with Hamza. I think you described most of us here. Guilt is a powerful thing.

July 12, 2007 at 8:52 AM  

how do we train to remove guilt from our emotion list, i wish it was as simple as the emoticons on msn lol

July 12, 2007 at 9:39 AM  

7elwa um-mit3ib !! seems to be the answer to a lot of things :)

i also tend to tip-toe around ppl too much. it's not right, but i'm improving with time

July 12, 2007 at 11:37 AM  

Blue dress .. Shut up @@

Eshda3wa - Why do you do that to urself?

I a2ayed Missy ..

July 12, 2007 at 11:43 AM  

I tried to post a comment but it wasnt ! Anyways ! This is the best post , we all do it and go on a guilt trip or send some one on the guilt trip ! thats life and its fun !

July 12, 2007 at 1:08 PM  

The things you feel guilty about are taken for granted since the start of the earth.
You should feel guilty taking advantage of someone you barely know :P

July 12, 2007 at 7:59 PM  

ola! and lol 3ala el the snorkling thing, think of it as not intruding into their homes but rather talking a ride on their streets ;p
btw how do u feel when u eat chocolate?

July 12, 2007 at 8:37 PM  

i stopped feeling guilty about anything since 2 weeks ago

u sholud do that to


cause nothing worth it
just enjoy ur time :D

July 12, 2007 at 8:46 PM  

do0da
zaiin 3ala fixin the font
ill go read now
and i do need to work on that
do u have an instruction manual i can use?

blue dress
really?
i disagree

nomad
i think we all do
its a guilty pleasure
hiff duno wat to do about not makin myself feel guilty!

missy
easier said than done
HUG

um-mit3ib
looooooool
aham shay

rekoo
hussain be nice!

hamza
u sound as bad as iam
we really need to find a solution to all this, im gna get grey hairs before my time!!

navy girl
i think guilt makes me more consederate of my actions
and yeah i lose sleep too

ghasheema
a blessing?
it feels more like a punishment
sure a lil guilt and sensivity mite be good
but i think im a notch over board!

marzouq
i want to stop
i want to just enjoy things
bs madre how!

July 13, 2007 at 1:12 AM  

hey.. -hug-
the worst kind of guilt is when u feel guilty about someone's death.. like it's ur fault, u keep blaming urself..

i send ppl on guilt trips.. sometimes to get what i want, not in a mean way, really :)

i hate takin these trips though, dreadful :(
:**

July 13, 2007 at 1:40 AM  

It's the double-guessing myself that bugs me!

July 13, 2007 at 1:42 AM  

amu
no i was ok
<-- cheers up

kj
its very powerful
u got the guilt sydrome too?!

zed
lol
god i wish it was that easy too!!

joud
i dont mind the tip toeing
nothing wrong with being careful
but the guilt!
my god!

fayoora
lol
ana ba3ad a2yd missy
bs madre shloon i apply!

grey
not all the time its not!

ms loala
lol
i dnt want to add more things i should be guilty about!!

bored
i dont feel guilty about food especially chocolate
thats a good thing in my opinion

free moi
good for u
but how?

July 13, 2007 at 1:44 AM  

Te6ewef is the key word here :P

give a 6af 6af 6af and 6af oo live ur life

July 13, 2007 at 9:07 AM  

cause when u do that u'll just live an awfull life life ...

and i told ma self that nothing worth it....

just live ur life 4 u not 4 any one

July 13, 2007 at 9:25 PM  

Actually it is a sign that your conscious is still alive.
And I must admit making “you” feel guilty for normal things is draining!!!

Whenever you feel guilty over something not worth feeling guilty of, remind yourself that whatever it is you deserve the best. ;)

For me personally, I can deal with making myself feel guilty but I cannot deal with making someone else feel guilty. Especially if it wasn’t my intention to begin with!

July 14, 2007 at 12:34 AM  

Actually it is a sign that your conscious is still alive.
And I must admit making “you” feel guilty for normal things is draining!!!

Whenever you feel guilty over something not worth feeling guilty of, remind yourself that whatever it is you deserve the best. ;)

For me personally, I can deal with making myself feel guilty but I cannot deal with making someone else feel guilty. Especially if it wasn’t my intention to begin with!

July 14, 2007 at 12:34 AM  

im feeling guilty reading this post ;| i agree with um-mit3ib!:P

July 14, 2007 at 1:38 AM  

Sending others on guilt trips, yeah it feels good, but 3war galb for the others..
But when you feel guilty about the stuff you mentioned...come on eshda3wa, I think its nothing but a big heart...galbech kbeer and you have care and consideration for others...that is a good thing eshda3wa =)
Dont feel bad about it..

July 14, 2007 at 1:49 AM  

yay i can finally comment! stop feeling so guilty arent u sick of it?! :P

July 14, 2007 at 3:09 AM  

When you realize what you're doin, i.e. makin yourself feel guilty just think about something else and make it something positive :)

July 14, 2007 at 8:21 AM  

I was gonna comment "i know how it feels" when i started reading the post, but towards the end i figured i dont know how u feel. Hmm. That's kinda extreme no? I hope u get over it cuz it can be veeery stressful. Guilt in itself mot3ib hal mara extreme guilt. About everything. U really shud worry less and enjoy more.

July 14, 2007 at 10:27 AM  

if you stick one thing, you would definately going in circles with it. That's why we MUST break the rules once in awhile. What I'm trying to say is don't be guilty about everything and everything. Just thinking about what you're doing makes me goin' in circles with ya! It's crazy!

July 15, 2007 at 2:10 AM  

guilt is harsh .. but fair.
i recently found out.

July 15, 2007 at 7:43 PM  

wow! no honey dnt do this to urself, u shouldnt feel guilty for things that are i dunno, enjoy things and just madre, i dnt know wat to say hehe forget it, just dnt feel guilty hehe :*

July 16, 2007 at 12:23 PM  

I think I read somewhere that guilt is one of the most self-destructive human emotions. From the sounds of it, the things you feel guilty about haven’t earned that kind of guilt level. I think you feel guilty not because you deserve it but rather because you’re an idealist. You have to behave in an absolutely perfect manner in order to accept yourself? I’m just analyzing here I could be way off and forgive me if I am. But if you are an idealist or a perfectionist, let me ask you this: do you know anyone at all who behaves in the ideal manner or whose behavior is never questionable? Now do they deserve to feel the level of guilt you do? Darling sometimes we just need to accept our own humanity and live with being less than ideal. You can try to improve yourself without shredding yourself to pieces when you don’t reach perfection. On a personal note, just knowing you as a blogger I think innich ityaneneen mashalla and it saddens me that you judge yourself so harshly when you’re so clearly adored by many.

July 16, 2007 at 1:34 PM  

have you been talking to my gf lately?!

She's excellent at those. And, just like you, she always manages to get herself caught in a self-guilt, self-pity episode that just drive me nuts!

I don't know what to tell you except that there are times when we all need to be a bit selfish and think only of ourselves.

July 16, 2007 at 4:31 PM  

You scream my language :}

July 17, 2007 at 11:27 AM  

dear friend, i'm on an every day guilt-trip. i am sure you've read about them in my posts.

but what i realise is that because you feel such guilt, you're more human because its the voice of your conscience reminding you to do right by those you love.

July 17, 2007 at 7:23 PM  

Nice post! Im like you, I even feel guilty when I'm trying to be mean to someone that deserves it. I wish I knew how to deal with guilt so it doesn't bother me!

July 17, 2007 at 11:52 PM  

i'm guessing you get pre-action guilt aswell.. right?

July 18, 2007 at 4:56 AM  

so2al!!!

laish dayman emcha3matni?

July 18, 2007 at 11:53 AM  

its ok to feel a little bit guilty but not all the time, i'm like u and its something that i cant stand 5a9atn if i feel guilty all the time.

July 18, 2007 at 4:50 PM  

I dread the feeling of being guilty and I love sending "some" on a guilt trip.. they deserve it sometimes ;P

July 19, 2007 at 4:46 PM  

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